Lately, I’ve been receiving some exciting emails and messages. They all sound similar to this:
Help! I want to do Trim Healthy Mama, but I’m overwhelmed! Can you help me understand it?
How is this exciting?
It tells me that people are taking their health seriously!
It’s a wonderful thing when people begin to treat their bodies as the temple in which the Holy Spirit dwells! From eternity, the Lord has all of our days numbered and we cannot surprise Him with an additional second by choosing to eat better; but, we can use our life on earth to serve Him with the energy, clarity, and joy that caring for our bodies affords.
Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed by Trim Healthy Mama?
I think the overwhelming feeling people get when they look into Trim Healthy Mama is largely due to the impending lifestyle change.
We like the comfort and stability of our routines, but sometimes we become too comfortable with unhealthy eating habits and it shows in our waistline, energy levels, hormones, and even our mental health.
Unfortunately, there is no easy answer, if “easy” means continuing to do the same thing and expecting different results.
Power to change starts with the mind; if you truly want to be a Trim Healthy Mama, you need to be willing to give some things up…but I promise you’ll gain a whole lot more (and I’m not talking pounds).
Physical Benefits of Trim Healthy Mama
- …Stabilized blood sugars
- …clearer skin
- …the ability to feel satisfied for hours after a meal
- …more energy
- …increased mental clarity
- …balanced hormones
- …a trimmer waistline…
…these are the things hundreds of thousands of women have gained by adopting the Trim Healthy Mama lifestyle, myself included, and we’ve done it while enjoying from all the food groups, and healthy versions of all our favorite meals that certainly don’t taste like diet food!
Yep, we eat it all!
(Just to give you an idea of how well Trim Healthy Mamas eat, I’m going to litter up this post with photos of some of our favorite recipes, all of which you can find here.)
If you’re sick and tired of being sick and tired, and serious about getting healthy for life, I want to offer you a simplified explanation of Trim Healthy Mama, on the condition that you’ll buy the Trim Healthy Mama Plan (or borrow it from the library if finances are tight!), and allow yourself 5-10 minutes of devotion to the most thorough explanation of the plan, written, of course, by Serene and Pearl themselves.
Keep a highlighter and a notebook handy, and read it word for word. You owe yourself the best explanation of THM!
Below is my personal summary of this sustainable, healthy lifestyle based on biblical principles and backed by science that has helped me discover what Food Freedom really is and rediscover my love of cooking.
Pink Strawberry Delight | THM:S
What Trim Healthy Mama is NOT.
- Trim Healthy Mama is not a quick weight loss program. You might finder faster, more immediate results with another program, but if you’re looking for life long trim, THM offers that with principles you can apply any time, anywhere.
- Trim Healthy Mama does not count calories, points, or grams of fat. Trim Healthy Mama recommends keeping your “E’s” (healthy carb-based meals) to 45 grams of carbs and a maximum of 5 grams of fat in a sitting, but the authors don’t want you to obsess about these numbers. In 4 years of doing THM, I have never counted a single carb, even though I have lost 45 pounds post-partum on plan. I prefer to keep things simple and focus on separating fuel types (fats and carbs) instead of counting numbers. I’m sure there have been many times where I have had 6 or 7 grams of fat instead of 5 in my E meal, but it’s the consistent application of Trim Healthy Mama principles that makes this plan work and gives meaning to the term “Food Freedom.”
- Trim Healthy Mama is not expensive. You can eat on plan very frugally using only foods that you grow or can purchase locally, or you can invest in the wide variety of specialty ingredients found online or in health food stores. The plan is completely doable on any budget. It’s as expensive as you make it.
- Trim Healthy Mama does not require the use of special ingredients. By “special ingredients,” I mean things you can’t find locally. Even here in Canada, I can find every single ingredient for all of the recipes on this blog in my own town.
- Trim Healthy Mama is not just for Mamas. Countless men and children are enjoying the THM way of life too. What makes this plan special is that it’s adaptable to pregnant, nursing, and menopausal women and has proven to work and even eradicate female related health issues such as PCOS, endometriosis, and menstrual irregularities, etc. Trim Healthy Mama was created by two busy mothers with the goal of helping other mothers become healthy and strong for their families like God created them to be. As a result, whole families are benefiting from physical and mental improvements in the Queen of her home, and even more so if they participate in the THM meals she prepares.
How does Trim Healthy Mama work?
Remember, this is meant to be a lifestyle. Please don’t view it as something you have to do; it’s something you get to do!
You get to eat fat!
You get to eat carbs!
You get to get healthy!
This is a blessing, a gift! You’re about to learn a few principles that will equip you to loose or maintain your weight and heal your body from the inside out for the rest of your life. You can do this in any place, any time, on any budget.
Trim Healthy Mama in A Nutshell
- Choose good fats (S’s) or good carbs (E’s) for each meal. Do not eat both together unless you’re pregnant, nursing, or need to gain weight. Eating both fats and carbs together is called a Crossover. These are excellent meals for growing children and men who have very physical jobs. Fuel Pulls, another term you’ll hear a lot, are meals that have a lean protein source and not enough fat or carbs to be considered either an S or an E. These types of meals can be helpful for stubborn losers who have trouble shedding pounds, but they shouldn’t be eaten too often by those who are at or near goal weight.
- Always have a source of protein in your meal that fits your fuel type. Fat-based S meals can have a fat-based protein source like beef, cream, nuts, and cheese. Carb-based E meals need a lean protein source like chicken breasts, beans, collagen, broccoli, 0% fat Greek yogurt, egg whites, and 0% fat cottage cheese. Having protein with each meal keeps you feeling full, boots your muscle mass while you shed excess fat, improves your mood by helping to stabilize your blood sugar levels, maintains strong bones, protects your heart, and improves your mental clarity. In other words, it’s a very important part of every meal.
- No sugar. In addition to cane sugar and its various forms, this includes all other blood sugar-spiking sweeteners like syrups, nectars, and honey (use Monkfruit – Lakanto is my sweetener of choice – xylitol, Gentle Sweet, Super Sweet, Erythritol or SweetLeaf Stevia instead).
- For your E meals, skip refined or empty carbohydrates or starches. No white potatoes, white flour, cornstarch, or rice flours. Choose healthy carbs like fruit, root vegetables, oats, and sprouted grains, etc., pair them with a lean protein source, and don’t combine them with fat.
- Wait 3 hours between each meal (unless you’re pregnant or nursing; then you can enjoy a meal every 2 hours, if needed). This gives your body enough time to burn through its last fuel source. (Your two fuel sources are fats and carbohydrates).
- Alternate fuel sources. I eat mainly fat-based meals (S’s), but it’s important to throw a carb-based meal (E’s) in there every once in a while to keep my metabolism guessing and revved up. Trim Healthy Mama recommends at least 7 E meals a week (or one a day). If you eat too much of one kind of fuel, you may notice a weight-loss stall, gain, or find yourself irritable if you’re not getting enough carbs (especially during PMS).
What do all the letters in Trim Healthy Mama mean?
S’s, E’s, XO’s, FP’s, GGMS, DST, MIM, ACV…if you’ve been lurking around the official Trim Healthy Mama Facebook page for a while, you might think learning Trim Healthy Mama is like learning a whole new language, but I promise you it’s not that hard. These are just short-forms or acronyms for popular THM terms.
S stands for Satisfying meals.
These are fat-based meals, desserts, or snacks that contain protein and fat, but no sugar and little to no carbs or starches.
A good example of an S meal would be: bacon, eggs, peppers fried in butter, and a coffee with cream.
A favorite S recipe: Low Carb Peanut Butter Cups
E stands for Energizing meals.
These are carb-based meals, desserts, or snacks that contain a lean source of protein and up to 45 grams of healthy carbs, but no sugar and little to no fat (1 tsp or 5 grams of fat is acceptable).
A good example of an E meal would be: grilled chicken breast, roasted root vegetables, and a salad with a vinaigrette dressing.
A favorite E recipe: Mushroom, Chicken & Rice Pilaf
XO stands for Crossover meals.
These are meals that contain both fats and carbs. These types of meals are not conducive to weight-loss, but they are wonderful options for men who have physically taxing jobs, growing children, and can be enjoyed as a treat by those who have reached their desired weight and are in maintenance mode.
A good example of a Crossover meal would be: A sandwich made of heavily buttered sprouted bread, a smear of mayo and mustard, sliced meat, cheese, lettuce, and tomato.
A favorite XO recipe: No Bake Chocolate Macaroons
FP stands for Fuel Pull meals.
Fuel Pulls are meals that contain a lean source of protein (the same as you would find in an E meal), and very little fat or carbs.
A good example of a Fuel Pull snack would be the Cottage Berry Whip on page 374 of the Trim Healthy Mama Cookbook, made by blending a low-fat cottage cheese, frozen berries, and on-plan sweetener together.
A favorite FP recipe: Pickle Juice Ranch Dressing
SH stand for S Helper.
These meals are S meals with a enough carbs in them to push the meal out of S mode, but not enough carbs to be considered a Crossover. These types of meals aren’t talked about as often since they’re more frequently utilized by diabetics and the same people who benefit from Crossovers.
A good example of an S Helper would be grilled steak, broccoli with cheese sauce and 1/4 cup of brown rice.
A favorite S Helper recipe: Meatball Sub Casserole
ACV stands for apple cider vinegar
ACV is the main ingredient in one of Trim Healthy Mama’s most famous drinks, the Good Girl Moonshine.
GGMS stands for Good Girl Moonshine.
This is a delicious non-alcoholic, drink with numerous health benefits (improves digestion, clear up skin, boosts the metabolism, gives you energy, etc.) that my husband and I enjoy every single day! I kick myself for waiting so long to try it because I was so put off by the thought of drinking apple cider vinegar! Don’t be like me! GGMS can be made in all kinds of flavors (here’s a great list from MamaShire) and none of them taste anything like ACV! My current favorite is the Shrinking Southern Sweet Tea ‘Shine!
DTS stands for Drive Thru Sue.
This is a term of endearment for Trim Healthy Mamas who often need to eat on the fly, with little time or ability to prepare their meals at home. The beauty of THM is that Drive Thru Sue’s can still eat on plan at virtually every restaurant!
MIM stands for Muffin In A Mug.
These are fabulously quick muffins (most of them low-carb) that can be cooked in a mug in just a minute in the microwave. Want to make your own quick MIM? I’ve got a list of 22 favorite THM Muffin In A Mug recipes, right here!
These are the most popular THM (Trim Healthy Mama 😉 ) acronyms. If you’re wondering about one I haven’t listed here, feel free to ask in the comments.
Which Trim Healthy Mama Book Should I Buy?
Since its recent release, I now recommend Trim Healthy Table to start. It contains a summary of the whole plan in the first 3 chapters, along with over 300 recipes to get you started.
If you can afford it, I also highly recommend purchasing The Trim Healthy Mama Plan by Pearl Barrett and Serene Allison. This book doesn’t contain any recipes, but it is a wonderfully detailed, accurate, humorous, authentic explanation of THM, and it’s 100% worth the investment.
For a thorough break down of what’s included in each of the 4 Trim Healthy Mama books, please check out this post.
For clarification purposes, if you’re just starting out with Trim Healthy Mama, you want the Trim Healthy Mama Plan, OR Trim Healthy Table. Either one will explain all you need to get started. Trim Healthy Mama Plan is just a lot more in depth.
If you’re purchasing through Amazon, you may see copies of the original, 600+ page book entitled Trim Healthy Mama: No More Fads, also by Pearl Barrett and Serene Allison. This is an enjoyable read and contains hundreds of wonderful recipes but is no longer in print, so it will likely be very expensive because it’s practically a relic. 😀 The revised edition, Trim Healthy Mama Plan, is much more succinct and simpler to follow.
Helpful Trim Healthy Mama Resources
Aside from the Trim Healthy Plan, there are a couple of other very helpful things, I would recommend to every Trim Healthy Mama at any stage in her journey. These include:
- The Trim Healthy Mama Cookbook – this is the first official recipe book published by Pearl Barrett and Serene Allison. Our family has tried and loved almost everything I’ve made from it and the vast majority of the recipes can be made without the use of special ingredients.
- Trim Healthy Mama’s Trim Healthy Table by Pearl Barrett and Serene Allison. A mentioned previously, this book has both a summary of the plan and 300+ recipes to go with it!
- The Poddy podcasts. “The Poddy” is the name of Pearl and Serene’s raw, unfiltered, unedited podcast host by “a guy named Danny.” Every Wednesday, a new Poddy is released. I listen to them on Podbean via Bluetooth during my daily walk, and I cannot even begin to express how much I enjoy getting inside the sisters’ heads. They are a wealth of wisdom, and full of grace, humility, and honesty, with tremendous knowledge regarding physical, spiritual, and mental health. These podcasts are free and I highly, highly recommend listening to them as soon as you can.
- THM Sweetener Conversion Chart. I created this THM Sweetener Conversion Chart because I wanted something that was easy to read and follow! I have an entire post dedicated to explaining all the different sweeteners, how they taste, and how to you can use them, here.
- Top Tips & Tricks For Successful Trim Healthy Mama Baking. I wrote this post to help curb the learning curve that comes with learning to bake with alternative sweeteners and flours! I hope it helps you find joy and success in the kitchen!
- Lakanto Monkfruit Sweeteners. I recommend these Monkfruit sweeteners to everybody! Not only do they taste and measure like real sugar, they have an extremely low glycemic index and are easy on the digestive system. They aren’t fatal to pets, and they are easy on the digestive system, too. You can read my entire review of Lakanto Sweeteners here, or use the Coupon Code: NORTHERNNESTER and save 15% OFF your purchase, here.
- The Slim & Staisfied Handbook If you’re still feeling overwhelmed after reading this summary of Trim Healthy Mama, here’s my digital 4-week NSI (No Special Ingredient) Menu Plan, The Slim And Satisfied Handbook, to help you get started! It contains gluten-free, sugar-free, high-protein recipes for every meal of the day and alternates low-carb and low-fat meals for the optimum metabolism boost! You can read all the details about this digital download here.
Anything else I should have on hand to start off?
Absolutely! Here’s a list of things I use almost everyday to make the Trim Healthy Mama plan work for us.
- A good blender. I have a Ninja blender, which is a middle-of-the-road choice when it comes to blenders, but it has held up incredibly well during the last 4 years of THM which involved me using it several times a week. Eventually, I’d love to save for a Vitamix!
- Quality stoneware. I love using stoneware, especially for E meals because it keeps things like baked goods and chicken breasts very moist without any need for additional greasing. My stoneware is from Pampered Chef, but American Bakeware is another excellent brand.
- A Mason jar and straw. Some of the THM drinks are so huge, you really do need a Mason jar to enjoy them in! I enjoy all my drinks in my trusty glass jar now.
- Pantry basics. The following ingredients will help you be able put together a wide variety of recipes. This list excludes “special ingredients,” which I hope to dedicate a different post to another day.
- almond flour, coconut flour, golden flaxseed meal (mixing equal parts of each of these ingredients together will give you a Baking Blend equivalent that you can use in S recipes)
- plan-approved sweetener (see above)
- sea salt
- oatmeal, oat flour
- xanthum gum (or glucci) to use as a thickener
- baking soda
- baking powder
- brown rice
- chicken broth
- 85% Lindt chocolate
- cocoa powder
- coconut oil
- oolong tea
- fruity teas (for a variety of GGMS’s)
- sugar-free condiments (Duke’s Mayo, mustard, sugar-free ketchup)
- Lily’s chocolate
- Joseph’s low-carb wraps
- unsweetened nut milks (cashew, almond, and/or coconut)
- Refrigerator/freezer basics.
- apple cider vinegar
- bottled pure lemon juice
- lean and fatty cuts of meat
- cottage cheese, regular fat and 0%
- 0% Greek yogurt
- whipping cream
- sour cream
- half & half
- a wide variety of fresh fruit
- a wide variety of fresh vegetables
Do you have any tips for Beginner Trim Healthy Mamas?
Yes! I so wish somebody had told me these 5 things the day I started:
- Don’t wait until you have everything figured out before beginning. Start by making one THM-friendly meal at a time, and then make another 3 hours later. You are not a failure if you make Crossover by accident. Every 3 hours you have the opportunity to re-set and start again!
- Drink at least one GGMS every day. I usually have two. They are so hydrating and life-giving. They help with digestion and will keep you “regular.” Tweak the amount of sweetener and ACV in your moonshine until it’s exactly how you love it, and then drink, drink, drink!
- S meals are the easiest and, in my opinion, the most delicious. I aim for 2-3 meals a day, and try to eat E snacks, or 1 E meal a day. Just remember to switch up your fuels and not eat too much of one type. Keep your metabolism guessing and enjoy all the food groups!
- If you give in and eat off-plan, you don’t need to eat 27 cookies just because you ate 3. Your day does not have to end off-plan just because it started off-plan. As the sisters say on The Poddy, practice your comeback!
- Stick with easy, no-special-ingredient recipes at the beginning. There’s a small learning curve to baking with different flours and sweeteners; we don’t want you giving up on THM just because you’re learning your way around a few new ingredients in some seriously delicious (but a bit complicated) new recipes.
Where can I find free, on-plan Trim Healthy Mama recipes?
Allow me to introduce you to some of my dear friends and their amazing Trim Healthy Mama-friendly blogs. You’ll have so much fun looking through all the plan-approved dishes they’ve created for us to enjoy!
- All Day I Dream About Food
- A Home With Purpose
- Briana Thomas
- Chrissy Benoit In Love
- Darcie’s Dishes
- Gracefilled Homemaking
- Gwen’s Nest
- Joy Filled Eats
- Joyful Jane
- Nana’s Little Kitchen
- Mrs. Criddles Kitchen
- My Montana Kitchen
- My Table of Three
- Oh, Sweet Mercy
- Run Amok Mama
- The Coers Family
- The Healthy Milestone
- Wonderfully Made and Dearly Loved
- Working At Homeschool
A couple Facebook pages and groups you may want to join:
- The official Trim Healthy Mama page
- The main Trim Healthy Mama group
- The beginners Trim Healthy Mama Group
- The Trim Healthy Recipe Bloggers page
I hope this was a helpful summary; don’t be shy if you have any questions!