Do We Self-Contract Or Hire A Builder? The Story of Our Homestead | Pt. 2

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Part 1: Should We Build Or Buy A House?

Once we had purchased our land, we needed to decide if we should self-contract or hire a builder to oversee the construction of our home. 

We spoke to several trusted friends and family members who had built their homes both ways, and came to the conclusion that whether we chose to self-contract or hire a builder, there were pros and cons to both. 

You will receive plenty of advice (solicited or otherwise!), but there is no right or wrong answer; it ultimately boils down to what makes the most sense for your own family.

Pros and cons to self-contracting and hiring a builder.



  • Most economical. Self-contracting can save you 15% on construction costs if all goes well. Sometimes more!
  • You’re in full control. If you have unique tastes (such as using reclaimed or vintage materials), it can be tricky to convey your vision to a general contractor. 
  • You get the satisfaction of doing it yourself. Building your own home is the ultimate DIY!


  • It’s easy to overestimate cost savings. There’s no shortage of resources that will tell you the joy and ease of self-contracting and how much money you will save, but according to Building Advisor:

Most exaggerate the savings and minimize the time commitment required, the difficulties, and the risks. There are owner-builder success stories and owner-builder nightmares. Before going too far down this path, take a hard look at what is required to succeed at this and a clear-eyed view of the potential savings. Then decide if it’s worth it.

Estimated costs are often vastly different than real costs. When you take into consideration cost overrun, time commitment, and unexpected expenses, your actual savings may not be as much as you think – so be careful!

  • It takes a lot of time. From planning, to scheduling, to monitoring, to researching, to recruiting, to hiring and overseeing, everything takes a lot of time and concentration. This is multiplied when it’s a first time project! If you have the time and energy to take on another full-time job (25-40 hours a week), it works, but if you’re already wishing for more hours in a day, hiring a contractor may save your sanity.
  • We’re not contractors. Professional contractors have professional contacts for every trade. They know who does the best work for the best price. They understand all that’s involved with obtaining permits efficiently, and building to code. They have an in-depth knowledge of the building process and won’t be rattled if one of the sub-subcontractors is a no-show. They know how to work through roadblocks and keep the project moving. 
  • You have to bear the brunt of the stress. Your custom windows don’t fit? The electrician does a sub-par job? Your flooring guy laid the right tiles in the wrong bathroom? The carpenter slices off his thumb? You have to deal with that. 
  • You’re just a small fish. Contractors can make you wait, since they need to prioritize their large contracts over your one-time job.

In summary, if you have time self contracting seemed to us to be the way to go. Almost all of the above “cons” can be mostly or completely erased by time – for example, being able to spend more time learning the ropes, spending more time gathering quotes and talking to customers of the contractors who make your shortlist so you make solid decisions, etc. 

Hiring A General Contractor

Caveat: these Pros only apply if you have access to a reputable builder. If you sign a contract with the wrong guy, you could wind up in a much more expensive project with all the negatives of self-contracting and then some! 


  • They bear the bulk of the stress. A professional builder will contract out, manage, coordinate and supervise the entire project from beginning to completion. 
  • They save time. A project this size benefits by having someone who is experienced with obtaining permits, construction schedules, and getting things inspected. 
  • They know who does the best work for the best price.  They will evaluate multiple bids from subcontractors and can get discounted contractor rates with suppliers.
  • You can usually get a better construction loan from the bank if you are working with a licensed general contractor.
  • A licensed builder carries all the insurance coverage you need for the build. This means that they are responsible for the risks and liabilities associated with the job.
  • A professional contractor can provide a home warranty. Commercial home warranty companies typically only provide coverage to licensed builders.
  • A home built by an experienced contractor should require less maintenance and fewer repairs.
  • A professionally built home can have better resale value. 


  • A professionally build home costs more. 


That is literally the only negative Brad and I could think of regarding the hiring of a builder for our home, and to us, that extra cost was worth it! Honestly, it was the only option for us, too. 🙂 

Neither of us have any experience with building a home, nor do we have the time. Brad’s job is experiencing exponential growth right now, and as Chief Operations Officer, he’s doing the best he can to keep his head above water! Homeschooling our kids and coordinating our provincial homeschooling conference take up much of our remaining time.

We dreamed of self contracting, but after all options were considered, we simply did not have the time or energy to take on a project of this magnitude by ourselves.

Plus, we know and trust our builder – the Project Manager was actually a classmate of Brad’s! They are part of our church community and have done many projects for friends and family, all while maintaining an excellent reputation for being honest, timely, and flexible.

So far the time commitment required from our end has been very minimal, and all is going exactly as we had hoped it would – allowing us to focus on the main things that demand our attention.

Do we self-contract or hire a builder?

The answer depends on an individual’s preference, and for us, we decided to hire a builder. 

Have you had a home built? Which route did you choose? 

Feel free to share your story and top tips below 🙂 

Note: Please do keep in mind that every situation varies! This is a no judgment zone, so please do share what worked for you without prescribing it as the “right” or “only” way. 🙂 

Next in The Story of Our Homestead: Designing Our Home 



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6 thoughts on “Do We Self-Contract Or Hire A Builder? The Story of Our Homestead | Pt. 2”

  1. Another middle of the road option is to buy a kit house. Cheaper than hiring a builder to build from scratch, and designed for those who lack the skills to do so. My family is large with 8 kids, and we also could not afford land and a house. Bought the land, lived in borrowed trailers ( old ones that leak rain on your bed at 1:00 in the morning!) until we could built a few 12 x 12 structures to live in while we save for a house. It’s not perfect but livable, and you realize you can live without a lot of things. Although I still dream of a dishwasher 🙂

  2. We have self contracted 2 houses. At the time my husband was himself in construction, knew the sub-contractors etc. we have recently purchased property and plan to build again. I’m pretty sure we’re going to hire nearly all of it done. Because of his experience there will be some things that just save too much money by doing it ourselves. But, our time is very limited and we are out of touch with sub-contractors.

  3. I love watching your house and home come together ,.. Thank you for all the info on the process of building a house , we are currently in the very early stages of designing a house for our 7 family (our kiddo’s description),so I am very anxious and interested in any advice/ tips you can share ..also I am grateful for all the NSI recipes you create , God has truly given you a talent in that area ,and I’m thankful to Him ,and to you, that you choose to use that gift! be blessed!!

  4. It was beneficial that you mentioned the fact that hiring a professional home builder is more helpful than doing it yourself because outsourcing these services can ensure that a warranty is put in place due to the fact they’re licensed. My wife and I are interested in getting our dream home constructed, as we believe that it is high time to do so. We’ll be sure to get into contact with a reliable contractor to get an estimate for the pricing.

  5. It’s nice that you talked about how hiring a home builder could help to lessen all the stress involved in doing so. They are in charge of planning, organizing, and overseeing the entire project from start to finish, as you indicated. In order to start his own family, my son intends to build a house. As he has no prior experience building a home, I believe it would be advantageous to contact a reputable builder. I’ll make sure to let him know about this and look for experts that could assist him. I appreciate you sharing!

  6. My sister has been asking for assistance as she plans to have her own home constructed. It’s great that you pointed out the benefits of employing a professional builder because they have knowledge of scheduling work, acquiring permits, and getting things inspected. Since getting a professional to handle it instead of managing it yourself seems beneficial I’ll make sure to tell her about this. I’ll most certainly look into a custom house builder that can assist her.


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